Marist High School offers the Kairos retreat during senior year. The details about what happens on this retreat are unknown to everyone, but most attendees come back saying they are glad they went.
While many students attend this retreat, some are very apprehensive about going because of its mysterious nature. This is what I’ve been able to find out about Kairos:
You are able to create friendships with people you do not usually talk to or really get to know during your four years of high school. Kairos gives you that opportunity.
“You will certainly make new friends. Many students want to only go with their friends. This isn’t a bad thing but to go with a group you don’t really know is what I encourage. You will get to know people really well in a short amount of time,” said Mr. Michael Brennan, Director of Campus Ministry.
There are many opportunities to go throughout senior year but some recommend to go sooner than later.
“I’m glad I went on one of the first trips of the year because I have more time to be around the people I feel like I just met versus if I went in the spring,” said senior Riley Gorney.
Kairos retreats run from Tuesday through Friday afternoons. There are separate trips for boys and girls.
Another big negative in students’ minds may be because they cannot bring their phones.
“Phones are not allowed for a few reasons…First, you are on a retreat, that is different from our normal routine. Having your phone is very normal and can be a distraction,” said Brennan. “Secondly, being without your phone allows you the time to dive into the retreat. There are no distractions to the ‘outside world,’ no social media, no gossip. It truly allows you to be present.”
Furthermore, many students come back with a new perspective on their phone.
“I cannot tell you how many kids will remark that they enjoyed being away from the phone for a few days,” he said.
It may seem scary going to an unknown location for a few days while hardly knowing the people you are with or what you are about to experience, but the positive feedback is overwhelming.
“My daughter came back from Kairos and was actually a lovely person to be around when she came back,” said Coach Rob Topps.
When you do get the chance, consider it. Maybe it will change your aspect of faith and you can understand yourself better.
“Students can go one time. We will invite certain students back as leaders but that comes with no guarantee that will happen for you, so make the most of your experience,” said Brennan.
If you do decide to go, be optimistic even if you’re a little on the fence about this mysterious retreat.
“Students will get out of Kairos what they are willing to put into it. Many students will learn a lot about themselves if they are willing to engage with the program,” said Brennan.