As seniors inch closer to graduation, students are starting to decide on the college they want to attend. Most colleges have already sent out decision letters and choosing the right college can put pressure on students, especially by May 1.
“It is what we call the national candidates reply date so colleges will expect students to make their decision by May 1st,” says college counselor Nicole Peterson.
With deadlines getting closer, students often succumb to the stress from their parents, peers, or even themselves.
“Everyone keeps asking me where I’m going to college and I still don’t know, so I feel really pressured especially by my parents. They want to know so we can visit [the college],” says senior Paige Shannon.
There are many different reasons why this is such a difficult decision. Tuition, commute, and being far from friends and family are some of the most common factors.
“I felt pressure that was put on by myself but also peers when I would hear about my friends applying to harder colleges,” says senior Maeve Briody, who is attending the University of Iowa in the fall.
Additionally, seniors often wonder if the college they are planning to attend is a right fit for them. Second-guessing and overthinking can come easily once committed to a college.
“I was stressed with the factor that I might end up hating it, that I wouldn’t fit in, or just the regret of staying in the Midwest,” says Briody.
In some instances, seniors do not get into their top choices. This can be disappointing and hard to deal with, but is also a chance for redirection.
“Try to stay open-minded and know things happen for a reason and there is definitely a place for everybody,” says Peterson.
Senior Paige Shannon experienced rejection from her top college but did not let it set her back too far, as she applied to 26 colleges to keep her options open.
“Their acceptance rate was low so I was kind of expecting it but it made me feel iffy,” says Shannon. “I was thinking if I couldn’t get in there I couldn’t get in anywhere else.”
Though this may seem intimidating, there are ways to stay positive and think rationally while picking the right college. Always having deadlines in mind, completing application steps in advance, and keeping open communication can be helpful.
“Talking with those really close to you could really sort of ease some stressors throughout the process as well,” says Peterson.
There are many things to look forward to once a college is selected. Things such as becoming independent, making new friends, decorating a dorm room, and starting a new chapter in life.
“Visit and see if you could see yourself living there,” says Briody. “If you can imagine yourself there then I think it is a good sign that you would be able to succeed there.”
