Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to celebrate love and deepen the connection with one’s partner. From date nights to thoughtful surprises, these suggestions will help make celebrations more meaningful.
Advice for Males:
For men in relationships, it’s important to make this day memorable by putting thought and effort into what they do for their partner. Whether in a new relationship or one that has lasted for years, Valentine’s Day provides a perfect opportunity to show a partner how much they are cared for.
One way to begin the day is with a personal touch, like a sweet text or phone call. A simple gesture may seem small, but it shows the partner that they have been thought of even before the celebrations begin.
Men should think about what their partner enjoys and plan an activity that reflects those interests.
“I’m going to bring my girlfriend to a nice restaurant for Valentine’s Day,” said junior Brandon Hoff.
If the partner loves adventure, a trip to a scenic location for a hike or a fun outing can be ideal.
Alternatively, if the female enjoys staying in, creating a cozy atmosphere at home with a movie marathon and favorite snacks is a great way to unwind together.
If unsure about gifts, men may consider a more personalized approach. Custom gifts that feel one-of-a-kind are often appreciated. For example, personalized jewelry with both initials, a custom-made artwork, or a meaningful piece can create lasting memories.
“I get my girlfriend flowers because you can never go wrong with flowers, I am also getting her chocolate because that’s a Valentine’s Day staple. Lastly, I am giving her a teddy bear, because she has been asking and because it is also a way to remember me,” said junior Nick Larson.
The key is to make the partner feel loved, appreciated, and valued, and the rest will naturally fall into place.
Advice for Females:
For women in a relationship, this day is also an opportunity to strengthen a relationship.
A handwritten note or card expressing love and appreciation can speak volumes, setting the tone for the entire day. Even if it’s a simple message, the thoughtfulness behind it will make the partner feel valued and loved. Personal notes can be kept as keepsakes, making the gesture even more meaningful over time.
Gift-giving is a tradition on Valentine’s Day, but it’s important to remember that the gift itself isn’t the most important part – it’s the thought behind it. Women should consider their partner’s hobbies, interests, or something that would be meaningful to them.
“I am going to get my boyfriend a pair of Lululemon joggers and a picture frame with a picture of us in there,” said junior Mia Duszynski.
Sometimes, creating something by hand, like a photo album or a handmade card, can be even more meaningful than a store-bought gift, because it shows effort and care.
Quality time is just as important, if not more so, than gifts on Valentine’s Day. Women need to focus on the time spent with their partner rather than just the presents.
A couple could spend time reflecting on their relationship, talking about the things that matter most to them, or simply enjoying each other’s presence.
Women should remember that while Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to celebrate love, showing affection and appreciation should not be confined to one day.
Relationship therapists says acts of love, big or small, should happen every day. Consistent gestures of care and appreciation strengthen the foundation of any couple.
Both males and females should remember it’s not just a day, it’s about creating memories, strengthening the connection, and celebrating the love that makes the relationship special.
